The Tale of My Tailor – Mere Tailor Master ki Kahani
As far back as I can remember, around the tender age of four, our family tailor, affectionately known as Maula to everyone, began weaving his magic not only in our home but also for all the Sikh families in our neighbourhood. Back then, ready-to-wear clothes were a rarity, and the concept of tailor-made clothing was an absolute necessity. It offered the advantage of complete customization, allowing you to choose the fabric, design, and fit according to your personal preferences. This was a time when personalized fashion was the norm, and we crafted every piece of clothing to perfection, tailored to our unique measurements. Sharing The Tale of My Tailor – Mere Tailor Master ki Kahani. I still have my mother-in-law’s Singer sewing machine.
A Personal Touch:
I took my fashion into my own hands, literally. I would design my dresses, and Maula, my trusted tailor, would bring them to life. These were not off-the-rack pieces; they expressed my personal style, a trend of my own. Maula had developed an intimate understanding of my style and measurements over time, ensuring that every piece he crafted was unique in itself to fit me perfectly. In contrast, ready-to-wear collections often followed fleeting fashion trends, whereas I could create timeless pieces.
Maula, a lanky young man with little initial expertise in cutting a proper salwar (trousers), had an interesting journey. The experienced older ladies in our neighborhood pitched in, sharing their tailoring skills and teaching him how to craft the loose, shapely salwars they preferred. Believe me, they measured 100 inches in width at the waist, held together with a nada or string. I would often pull my mama’s string if it was hanging out. The ankle cut, known as the “pauncha,” was a work of art, for him. He adorned it with intricate stitches in curves, loops, circles, and diamonds.
The Festival Mode:
The days when Maula would visit our home to stitch were nothing short of a festival. He would arrive at the unearthly hour of 7 a.m., exuding the scent of a sickly, overpowering attar (perfume) that he favoured. My mother would spring into action, having everything meticulously prepared for him: the fabric, spools of thread, tape, sewing chalk, and scissors. Remember the Merritt Singer or Usha sewing machines?
Then would ensue an intense confrontation, akin to two gladiators locked in combat. Maula had a reputation for occasionally sneaking extra fabric, and my mother’s eagle eye never missed a thing. He would expertly cut nearly five dresses daily, completing them all by evening. Throughout the day, the continuous hum of the sewing machine resonated throughout the house.
Maula’s Quirks:
Maula had specific preferences for his meals, which he expected in every house where he worked. His breakfast was the special ‘vall walle’ or laccha parathas, smeared with homemade ghee. He liked omelettes with onions and green chillies. If they didn’t meet his standards, he refused to eat. For lunch, he preferred rice, dal, sabzi, pickle, buttermilk, and tea, which he enjoyed three to four times daily at fixed times.
He was an avid movie buff, never missing a single release. The following day, he would discuss the film with anyone he encountered. Maula diligently read the Telugu newspaper daily, staying well-informed about global events.
The Tale of My Tailor – Mere Tailor Master ki Kahani
Maula’s Secrets:
Maula was not your typical tailor. After working continuously for three to four days, he would sometimes disappear the following day, often on a drinking spree until his funds were depleting. Yet, he remained in high demand because of his magical tailoring skills, and no other tailor could match his artistry. An intriguing aspect of Maula’s work was that he never took measurements; he would simply cast a casual glance and begin cutting. He even crafted a dress for my future sister-in-law by merely glancing at her photograph. Present him with any pattern, and he would attempt to recreate it. My sister-in-law loved to wear broad and deep necklines, showing some cleavage. And if she requested the scissors to cut a little lower, he would look down and say, “kya accha lagta ji!!” (that won’t look good) — a touch of fashion policing that always made us chuckle.
From Frailty to Fortitude:
Maula’s physique was so frail and scrawny that I used to tease him, jokingly asking when he would pass away, to which he would respond, “Not until I’ve stitched your trousseau.” During my college years, I designed my dresses and I would spend hours explaining the patterns to him. He would grumble and complain but secretly he enjoyed the challenge of creating a new design and took immense pride in his creations. Although I had the privilege to have my clothes tailored at Delhi boutiques, after I was married, I often found myself dissatisfied with the fit and cut.
One exasperating habit he had was asking for payment, even when he wasn’t tailoring for you. If you didn’t settle his dues, he wouldn’t show up at your doorstep and take cash as an advance. He had “ATMs” in every home, where he could withdraw cash without the need for a card.
Legacy and Loss:
Once he had saved enough, he started tailoring from his home. We had to take our silks and satins to his house, and our worst fears came true. Maula was a habitual drinker and would end up selling all the materials from his house. After months of cursing and frustration, he returned to his usual routine of house-to-house tailoring. He stitched everything, from baby diapers to baby clothes, cushion covers to pillow covers, curtains to even doormats. Salwar-kameez was his favourite, although he consistently declined to sew blouses.
When it was time for my wedding, he was still fit and fine, and he tailored not only my trousseau but also the clothes for everyone else. Later, he crafted baby clothes for my son and daughter. He remained indefatigable and just kept going. Even when many people stopped seeking his services, I remained a loyal customer, and he agreed to work for me when I started a boutique at home, 20 years ago. His son also entered the tailoring business, and I roped him in, finding that he was a chip off the old block.
The Tale of My Tailor – Mere Tailor Master ki Kahani
My Boutique
I designed the clothes, Maula did the cutting, and I employed three other tailors to complete them. I would come up with the latest patterns and cuts, some from famous magazines, sketching and showing them to him. He would grumble and mumble but ultimately he would take delight in the challenge of creating a new design: all while muttering under his breath.
Gradually, he grew frailer and couldn’t stitch with the same finesse as before. But he continued to do so sporadically, even as he battled with his persistent drinking habit and diminishing appetite.
Years ago, my mother had given him a 20-paise copper coin with a lotus engraved on it, which he considered exceptionally lucky. A few years later after my mom passed away, he handed it over to me, saying, “You keep it; it will bring you good fortune!” It was a deeply touching gesture.
A Tragic End:
Unfortunately, tragedy struck Maula’s life in quick succession. He lost his entire family within a few months — his wife to gangrene, his daughter during childbirth, and his son to tuberculosis. Homeless and destitute, he slept wherever he could find shelter. In the end, they found him gravely ill on the roadside, and an ambulance was called to take him to the hospital. This was The Tale of My Tailor – Mere Tailor Master ki Kahani
But he never returned. His memories live on forever. Bless his soul wherever he is.
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Trust me when I say this, it is almost impossible to find a good tailor these days. All are frauds. I had a tailor just like Maula and he fell to stroke and never recovered. Ever since I have not been able to stitch a correct dress with anyone.
This story is very sad, but very unique. Nice to read and I tell you such stories should be published in children’s books. Nice written and thanks for sharing.
Do you have the picture of the copper coin, it would be good to see it. Thanks.
It’s heart-wrenching to hear about the challenges Maula faced in his later years.
Oh gosh this is such a heart wrenching story. I had a tailor like this who vanished suddenly but we hoped that he was only deported from Kuwait because he was a Pakistani without proper papers or something. God bless your tailor’s soul.
This is heart heart-wrenching story. It’s quite a challenge to find the perfect tailor these days. Don’t you think tailors from the past often did a better job than today’s? Maula’s ability to create a dress simply from a photograph seems almost magical, and his fashion policing adds an enjoyable twist to the entire tailoring experience! God bless his soul.
I don’t know if that was a fruitful life or a wasted one, but it surely was a talented one. Alcohol is such a detriment. I wish people would stop wasting their lives for this. I hope Maula is in peace now, wherever he is.
Maula , the tailor as depicted by you , comes to life Harjeet! A man skilled with his won quirks , living life on his own terms but meeting a sad end. You could actually write a whole book here including your own tryst with fashion and business.
This is such a painful tale to read. Back in Kolkata when I gave my wedding saree and blouse to our trusted Darzi mama he was so excited and happy knowing the little girl who used to come with her mother to get new frocks and skirts done is now leaving bird’s nest. But then he got seriously ill and I was more worried about him rather than my blouse. I guess we end up making family relationships with strangers like this. Sadly he passed away a couple of months after my wedding and the family sold the shop too. It is like a door got closed forever.
Wow Harjeet I didnt know you were a designer, would’ve loved to see some of your creations. So thoughtful of you to write a blog on Maula. I can see what he meant to you. I really enjoyed reading his story and yiur style of writing but what a tragic story 😔
Your post took me back to the good old days. We also had a family tailor who would come down from Nainital in winter. Back then ladies would pay for his move ticket and then ask home to recreate a particular style for them. Maula’s tragic end was heart-breaking.
An emotional heartbreaking story… where I can see how an exceptionally talented person faded away in the pages of history falling prey to alcohol. Master Ji, which most of us use for talented old aged tailors. They are known for their excellent craftsmanship. Each dress they made looks perfect in fitting and when I was a child there was a dedicated masterji who used to make mine and didi’s dresses…. perfect fit and perfect look. Gone are those days and talents there are hardly any masterji available these days … so many suit pieces are now lying with me in my almirah waiting for the right tailor to make them for me. Mam… I was unaware of the fact that you are such a wonderful storyteller. God Bless you.
This is such a ‘dil ko choo gaya’ wala post. Where do we find such gems these days? May he be happy wherever he is.
Heart touching story. Yes, it is true you never get a good tailor. Even I have one since my college days. The cutting and fitting was awesome. And then his shop was suddenly disappeared. I am also shifted to other place after my marriage. Rest in peace Maula.
I felt that. Its so sad that he has lost his entire family, we only can assume how lonely he was at that time. Wish he had a better ending to life
The start felt like a movie story and it definitely ended sad. An unexpected ending to such a talented person.
Mom has the exact same sewing machine. And it has been going strong for the past 53 years. Loved your post. Reminded me of my childhood when readymades were a rarity. But what happened to Maula was heartbreaking.
What a tragic end to such a talented skillfull being. Olden days toulors really were magicians who can just stitch clothes so perfectly. Sometimes without even measuring. And now we struggle to find a decent one.
As I read this post so many memories flew by, tailoring is an art, and it’s really hard to find a good one. The end was tragic and I really hoped it wasn’t like that.
Bless his soul. I dont exactly have words, but yeah good to know he is remembered. Finding people who are so exceptionally good at work and have a good heart is hard to find.
That’s such a tragic and sad story. I applaud you for writing about your family tailor as this tiny space online could be the only way to honor the great life and talent that was shared to many whom he had made clothes during his prime years. I bet he’s waving and praising you for the good words and sharing his story from up above.
Honestly tailors were the only sort in the olden days when mostly only material was available it is tha maula that everyone was looking upto even on feative occasions. Beautiful Harjeet ji.
The secret behind that perfectly fitting wardrobe is an indispensable person..the tailor! Such a lovely post. Although I am yet to find one who does the job. I mostly rely on my mom for this .
Your post brought back fond memories of the past. We, too, had a family tailor in Rajasthan. Especially, he would sleep at our place during Weddings and 100s of clothes for our entire extended family. By the way, the tragic conclusion of Maula’s story was truly heart-wrenching.
Tailoring is an art, and it’s quite difficult to find a skilled one. As I read this piece, many memories came flooding back. I really wanted it to not be like the awful ending.
What a touching tribute to someone who clearly left an indelible mark on your life, Harjeet. We all have a long-standing family but kudos to your special observations.
Merci pour cet excellent article C’était en fait un compte-rendu amusant J’attends avec impatience d’autres choses agréables de votre part Cependant, comment pouvons-nous communiquer ?
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