Kitty Party Games & Busting Kitty Myths
In the realm of social gatherings, “kitty parties” are often associated with trivial gossip and competitive card games. However, the group I belong to breaks away from these stereotypes. Our exclusive group of 22 women came into existence 42 years ago. We do not gather for idle chatter or play card games with alcohol. Let me share Kitty Party Games & Busting Kitty Myths
Star Kitty & My Stars*****
Welcome to Stars, our unique kitty party where we challenge traditional norms. We foster an environment where we enrich our minds. Our gatherings involve lively Housie and word games like crosswords, puzzles, quizzes, and sudoku.
Our parties are different and bring our girl gang closer through shared interests and intellectual activities. We adhere to strict rules, ensuring punctuality, fair hosting, and respectful discourse. We thoughtfully plan every detail, from Tambola ticket arrangements to meal servings and group activities, to ensure an enjoyable experience for all members.
However, it’s not always smooth sailing. Our games spark lively debates. However, once the party ends, we forget about these lively debates as soon as we walk out.
Join me as I share a glimpse into our intellectual kitty parties, where laughter, learning, and camaraderie thrive.
Here are the strict rules for our kitty parties:
1. Punctuality is key; 12 noon is the start time.
2. Latecomers pay a fine of 2 rupees per minute after 12.
3. Absentees pay a fine of 100 rupees.
4. Parties can be hosted at home, club, or hotel.
5. Fixed servings for drinks, soup, starters, main course, and desserts.
6. Host selection is random through chits.
7. Absentees must reimburse the hostess or lose hosting privileges.
8. No discussions on politics, religion, or controversial topics.
9. Tambola tickets are arranged by the hostess, and each member pays.
10. Tambola ticket price: 100 rupees for 6 tickets.
11. Hostess decides on individual or group games.
12. Starters and mocktails are served first, followed by the main course.
13. Special dessert shared by hostess and guests.
14. Ladies are divided into 3-4 groups.
15. Five games played, with custom creations; most wins determine the winner.
16. Hostess organizes cash prizes or gifts with a set budget.
17. Tea is served upon request.
18. The party concludes at 3:30 pm.
19. Annual vacation, alternating between India and abroad.
20. New member inclusion via democratic vote.
Kitty Party Games & Busting Kitty Myths
Sharing a slice of our intellectual kitty parties, where laughter, learning, and camaraderie thrive in equal measure. Here are a couple of examples of games that we play.
There is only a 1-2 minute time frame for the games. Sharing a couple of easy games that we enjoy during our gatherings.
Game 1-Time 1 Minute
PALINDROMES
A palindrome is a word or phrase that reads the same forwards and backwards. Even the name of the pop group Abba is a palindrome. Could you spot palindromic words from the clues below? Give it a try!
TIME-60 Secs
Example: Part of the body-Answer: EYE
- A young dog
- Exactly at mid-day
- Flat as a plain
- A word for addressing a lady
- 5, A long canoe starting with K
- A system for detecting aircraft, ships, etc.
- An act or action that has been done.
- Pieces of music for a single person
- Most Indians litter everywhere because they lack ______ sense.
- The female of a sheep
- Blow a Trumpet
- Your favourite person in the world
Key To Palindromes
Example: Part of the body-Answer: EYE
- A young dog- PUP
- Exactly at mid-day-NOON
- Flat as a plain- LEVEL
- A word for addressing a lady- MADAM
- A long canoe starting with K-KAYAK
- A system for detecting aircraft, ships, etc-RADAR
- An act or action that has been done-DEED
- Pieces of music for a single person- SOLOS
- Most Indians litter everywhere because they lack CIVIC sense
- The female of a sheep–EWE
- Blow on a horn——TOOT
- Your favourite person in the world- MOM
Game 2-All Words Start with the Letter “P”
- I make pots of clay –
- The rainwater on the road is called-
- The Earth _____ things towards it.
- We get bacon and ham from-
- It is a fruit——
- A game played by 4 people-
- The act of doing a thing correctly–
- Which sacred books are the encyclopaedias of Hindu mythology–
- One of the eight wonders of the world-
- Delhi has the___________house.
- The parakeet is a smaller species of –
- The name Kodak is associated with-
- A set of two
- Lala Lajpat Rai is known as the lion of -.
- A person who travels on foot
- The —— is the nominal head of the constitution.
- Hens, Cocks are kept in a-
- The back part of the throat-.
- Cheese is a food which is rich in –
- A white flag represents
- The process of cutting fruit trees to improve their growth is called
- Art of reading the lines of the palm-
Key to Game 2
All Words Start with the Letter “P”
- I make pots of clay – Potter
- The rainwater on the road is called- Puddle
- The Earth – Pulls things towards it.
- We get bacon and ham from- Pork
- It is a fruit -Pear, Papaya
- A game played by 4 people- Poker
- The act of doing a thing correctly– Precise
- Which sacred books are the encyclopaedias of Hindu mythology–Puranas
- One of the eight wonders of the world- Pyramids
- Delhi has the-Parliament house.
- The parakeet is a smaller species of -Parrot
- The name Kodak is associated with- Photos
- A set of two-pair
- Lala Lajpat Rai is known as the lion of- Punjab
- A person who travels on foot- Pedestrian
- The – President is the nominal head of the constitution.
- Hens, Cocks are kept in a-Pen
- The back part of the throat- Pharynx
- Cheese is a food which is rich in – Protein
- A white flag represents- Peace
- The process of cutting fruit trees to improve their growth is called- Pruning
- Art of reading the lines of the palm- Palmistry
Game 3–Cross Off-Are you good with your Geography?
From the grouping of words below, cross off those that are in the listing.
Read the words remaining, from left to right, top to bottom, to find a popular tourist spot.
EAST, BRNO, CATALINA, FAIRBANKS, TOKYO, OTTAWA, JUNEAU, ICELAND,
LIMA, QUEENSTOWN, NORTH, TURKEY, WEST, ANCHORAGE, ROME,
MONTREAL, PARIS, ISLAND, ROME, AUSTRIA, KINGSTON, ROTTERDAM,
PRINCETON, NEPAL, MALI, QUEBEC, CALIFORNIA, BEJING, SOUTH.
- Two places that contain only these letters: A, I, L, and M.
- A Dutch city that rhymes with ‘hotter ham
- Two cities in Alaska
- A country that sounds very cold
- A country that reminds you of Thanksgiving food
- An Italian city that’s an anagram of ‘more
- A Czech city that’s an anagram of “bom”
- A French city that’s an anagram of ‘pairs’
- A country that’s an anagram of ‘plane’
- Three places that sound like royalty
- Two cities in Canada
- A country that would become a continent if you placed the letters ‘AL’ in it
- Two Asian capitals
- Four directions
Key to Game 3
Game 3 – Cross Off-Are you good with your Geography?
From the grouping of words below, cross off those that are in the listing.
Read the words remaining, from left to right, top to bottom, to find a popular tourist spot.
EAST, BRNO, CATALINA, FAIRBANKS, TOKYO, OTTAWA, JUNEAU, ICELAND,
LIMA, QUEENSTOWN, NORTH, TURKEY, WEST, ANCHORAGE, ROME,
MONTREAL, PARIS, ISLAND, ROME, AUSTRIA, KINGSTON, ROTTERDAM,
PRINCETON, NEPAL, MALI, QUEBEC, CALIFORNIA, BEJING, SOUTH.
- Two places that contain only these letters: A, I, L, and M- LIMA
- A Dutch city that rhymes with ‘hotter ham-ROTTERDAM
- Two cities in Alaska-FAIRBANKS, JUNEAU
- A country that sounds very cold-ICELAND
- A country that reminds you of Thanksgiving food-TURKEY
- An Italian city that’s an anagram of ‘more’-ROME
- A Czech city that’s an anagram of “bom”-BRNO
- A French city that’s an anagram of ‘pairs’-PARIS
- A country that’s an anagram of ‘plane’-NEPAL
- Three places that sound like royalty-PRINCETON, KINGSTON, QUEENSTOWN
- Two cities in Canada-OTTAWA, QUEBEC
- A country that would become a continent if you placed the letters ‘AL’ in it-AUSTRIA
- Two Asian capitals-TOKYO, BEIJING
- Four directions-NORTH, SOUTH, EAST, WEST
Famous Tourist Spot-Catalina Island, California
Game 4- Crossword
Across
3. A group of musicians who play modern music together. (4)
5. The collective term for music, art, theatre, literature, etc. (7)
6. A large, printed picture or notice put on a wall, in order to decorate a place or to advertise something. (6)
7. Several songs or pieces of music on a CD, a record, etc. (5)
11. The people who sit and watch a performance at a cinema, theatre, etc. (8)
12. A book, newspaper, etc. that is one of several that are the same and were produced at the same time. (7)
15. A television or radio station (= broadcasting company). (7)
16. A television or radio programme or performance. (4)
17. A very popular book that many people have bought. (10)
Down
1. A room or building which is used for showing works of art. (7)
2. A short period of time between the parts of a play, performance, etc. (8)
4. When objects such as paintings are shown to the public. (10)
6. The story of a book, film, play, etc. (4)
8. A person in a play or a film. (4)
9. A report in a newspaper, magazine or programme that gives an opinion about a new book, film, etc. (6)
10. A view or picture of a film, play or show. (5)
13. A picture, especially on film or television or on a screen. (5)
14. All the actors in a film, a play or a show. (4)
Key to Crossword
Across
3. BAND
5. CULTURE
6. POSTER
7. ALBUM
11. AUDIENCE
12. EDITION
15. CHANNEL
16. SHOW
17. BESTSELLER
Down
1. GALLERY
2. INTERVAL
4. EXHIBITION
6. PLOT
8. PART
9. REVIEW
10. SCENE
13. IMAGE
14. CAST
Kitty Party Games & Busting Kitty Myths
PRINTABLES
Game1
Game 2– All words starting with the letter P
Game 3– Cross Off
Famous Tourist Spot-Catalina Island, California
Game 4- Crossword
Interested in more games? Here goes a list
This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla in collaboration with Bohemian Bibliophile
Your kitty is zara hatke, it includes some good rules to inculcate discipline and those annual trips too are a great idea too.
Loved the game you have kindly shared with us.I am sharing this post with my friend who is a part of a kitty circle for planning ideas.
Such a well detailed post. I have never been a part of any kitty so I am not sure how things work. But your blog post gave me a glimpse into the life inside a kitty party.
I as a mother of two kids have not got a chance to be a part of any kitty group. But if they are like this and fun then I would ove to be a part if it,
For me kitty party is something reserved for High class women only and I don’t know what exactly they do. But after reading your post I feel it is very exciting. I like your printable. You have rules that every one should be involved. I really liked it Jeet.
You have a latecomer fee! That’s discipline. I feel your kitty party group is enterprising–regular meets and travels. That’s good going. I like your mind boosting games too.
In our society there are countless Kitty’s going on and few call it also committee where money is also involved. I was also invited my many groups to be a part of their kitty but I never showed interest as somehow the concept is not at all appealing to me. They also play such games, follow a particular dress code, food, dance and most importantly gossip. I really dont have time for all these and I better use it in something fruitful. That is altogether my personal opinion about kitty. But those who like it must be a part of it and that’s their way of spending time.
Brings back memories… Loved reading your blog…
Thank you, Sunita..we have created a cult
What a delightful and fun post to read and virtually experience. I loved the rules and all that your kitty party is made up of, right from food to group regulations. I am a part of teh so called kitty-group, but since we all have young kiddos we prefer meeting out, away from family for a much needed me time.
wow! so interesting. Indeed Kitty parties are often felt as a place where women meet to play games and gossip. Loved the rules you guys have set. And he games are just wow!
Very creative and thoughtful games. I enjoyed doing it myself.. Haha. We don’t have kitty parties as such but once a month going out and chilling is the thing. But after seeing your tips and ideas I think we can start now.
Your kitty games are so much fun, Harjeet! It’s great to see you girls not just meeting up for food and catch up but indulging in some mentally stimulating games as well. It’s important to be part of such a wonderful group.
Wow Harjeet… so amazing! It’s a blessing to have an engagement like this. You all travelled to Bhutan? I remember that place with 108 stupas on the way to Punakha.
I love all your games… so interesting and the types that sharpen your mind. In the first one I didnt know #11 and my last answer was ‘dad’.
We used to have a kitty group too but after covid we just didn’t re-start. After seeing your pics, I miss it all the more. Btw, I really like the idea of the fines… it makes so much sense.😄
Oh, I was not aware that kitty parties are so much fun and the best part they get to travel annually. Now, I really wish to join such a group but I’ve no idea how to find one. Keep enjoying!
Your post reminded me of the Ladies Club meets in the army where we played a lot of games. Great memories. The kitties I am a part of now are more like get-togethers. My favorite is our cousin kitty where I am one of the younger members.
I urge you to watch this show called ‘Gullak’ on SonyLiv, specifically S2E2. Your post strongly reminded me of that episode. Because the narrator talks about how these Kitty parties are more than what we make of them. It was such a heartfelt narrative and portrayal that it changed my own perspective towards kitties.
Coming to your post, I’m in awe of how well-organized everything is. The rules made me go, ”Wow! There’s so much to learn from these!” Also, the games are so much fun. You made me play while reading. So that’s a win for sure! Thank you for imparting wisdom while also giving me some entertainment in the form of the games.
It’s amazing..I have never been a part of kitty parties..if they seems to be like this…so much of fun ..I must soon be a part of such events .
These Holi party game suggestions are absolutely amazing! I’ve never had the opportunity to attend a Holi Kitty gathering myself and that definitely because I am not part of any kitty :(. The only Holi bindaaz memory I have is from my hostel days, where my friends and I went wild with colors but didn’t engage in any organized games. It sounds like you have an incredible time with your friends. I would love to be a part of such a festive gathering and experience this level of enjoyment firsthand. Holi is such a vibrant and joyous festival, and I can only imagine the laughter and camaraderie that comes with playing these games. Count me in for the next celebration—you can bet I’ll be ready to join in the fun and make unforgettable memories with your awesome crew! Another memory I had with my neighbourhood friends in my society, we went completely mad that day with fun, color, guijiya and what not.
This sounds like such fun! Quite different from what I had in mind about regular kitty parties.