Mindfulness Matters: Breath by Breath


Learning to Be Where My Feet Are

I am participating in #BLOGCHATTERA2Z YEAR 2025 & Blogging from A to Z Challenge! Somewhere along the way, I realised I was living life on autopilot—doing, responding, remembering, worrying—but rarely being. Even joyful moments slipped by unnoticed, buried under lists and lingering thoughts.
Then one morning, during a quiet stretch of pranayama, it hit me: I had been missing my own life. Not the big events, but the small ones. The warm cup of chai. The early sun painting my plants golden. The way the wind plays with the edges of my dupatta on my daily walk.
That’s when mindfulness found me—or maybe, I finally found myself.
Rituals That Root Me

Mindfulness isn’t a one-time decision. It’s a daily practice—a sacred return to the present. For me, it begins in the body. My breath is the first step. Each inhale and exhale during pranayama is like opening a window to calm.
Yoga follows. The asanas aren’t just exercise—they’re invitations to listen to my body. Some mornings, I feel grounded. Others, I wobble. But even in the wobble, I’m awake, aware, alive.
These practices, which I often mention in my blogs, aren’t just wellness tools. They’re my anchors.
A Mindful Walk with Myself
Every day, I take a walk—my quiet conversation with nature. I don’t scroll. I just walk, notice the birdsong, the sunlight dancing through the leaves, and the rhythm of my steps.
This simple ritual has taught me more about mindfulness than any book ever could. It brings me back to my senses-literally. The world feels full again. I feel full again.
Mindfulness in the Everyday
Mindfulness doesn’t always look like meditation. It shows up in the way I chop vegetables or how I fold a saree. It’s there in how I listen, not just to others, but to myself. Some of the ways I stay present include:
- Breathing deeply when emotions run high
- Savoring my meals without distractions
- Pausing between tasks to reset—not rush
- Drinking water slowly, with gratitude
- Choosing silence when my mind feels noisy
These small things add up. They teach me that life isn’t meant to be rushed through—it’s meant to be lived through.
Mindful Eating: Nourishing the Body, Calming the Mind
Mindfulness isn’t only about breathwork or stillness—it’s also in how we eat.
I used to rush through meals while multitasking or scrolling on my phone. But slowing down and paying attention to each bite changed everything. I began to savour my food, enjoy the textures, and feel more connected to my body’s signals.
In my post 5 Tips to Mindful Eating, I shared how chewing slowly, setting the phone aside, and appreciating each ingredient can turn a simple meal into a moment of peace.
Mindful eating is about more than food; it’s about respect. For your body. For the nourishment. For yourself.

Presence Is Power
When I’m mindful, I respond instead of react. I soften instead of snapping. I feel more in control, not of the world, but of myself. That’s empowerment. That’s peace.
In my recent blog on Joyful Living I share how happiness often hides in small, ordinary moments. Mindfulness is the key that unlocks them.
If You’re New to Mindfulness…
Start small. Take 3 deep breaths when you wake up. Put your phone away during meals. Step outside and notice 3 things with each of your senses—what you see, hear, smell, feel.
Give yourself that presence. It’s the kindest gift.
Final Thought
Mindfulness isn’t about escaping life. It’s about arriving fully into it—messy, beautiful, unpredictable as it may be.
I don’t always get it right. Some days, I spiral into stress. But I’ve learned to catch myself. To breathe. To begin again.
And in that small return, I find myself—over and over again.
This blog post is part of ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla
in collaboration with Ratna Prabha.
The A2Z List
- Awakening-Ignite your Spark
- Bloom Bravely-Choose Courage & Self-love
- Clear Mental Clutter for Growth
- Rise with Determination
- 8 Steps to Embracing Your True Essence
- Finding Work-life Balance
- Gratitude: Fuelling Growth with Thankfulness
- Healing: Turning My Power into Pain
- Inner strength: Awakening the warrior within
- Joyful Living: Creating a Life of Joy & Purpose
- Kindness to Myself & Others
- Letting Go: Making Space for Peace
I really enjoyed your post. It did make me reflect on being mindful – thank you.
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Thank you for stopping by.Am glad it resonated with you.
Mindful walking is my favorite activity when I am feeling restless and try to think something deeply, often in the time of facing a dilemma or going through inner turmoil.
I found myself nodding along when you spoke about space being everything, that sweet moment between stimulus and response where we get to reclaim ourselves. Your writing makes mindfulness feel accessible — like, “Hey, you can just breathe and reset.” Thanks for sharing these gentle reminders; I’ve already caught myself checking in with my breath more than once today!
As a co-author of the book “Brave inked Emotions” , i had shared how mindfulness brought me back from a descent into anxiety and despair.I am glad that you have written about this wonderful practice of mindfulness and how to embrace it in our lives.Really helpful.
A beautifully explained post on mindfullness! Thank you for sharing! Three things that have improved my mood and my well being is mindful walking, pranayama, and eating without distractions. I first encountered eating wothout distraction or with closed eyes in 2018 at an ashram. It seemed funny to me then, 7 years later, I am enjoying that very same thing.
If and when I start it, I wold start with keeping my phone away for the first 30 minutes of the day. That is creating all the delay for the day.
“Mindfulness isn’t about escaping life. It’s about arriving fully into it—messy, beautiful, unpredictable as it may be.” I am taking this key takeaway from your your blog. Thanks for sharing this.
I loved reading your reflections on mindfulness; it felt like you were guiding me through each breath alongside you! Your tips for staying anchored in daily chaos really resonate with my own struggles. The way you talk about noticing thoughts without judgment is so gentle yet powerful. Thank you for writing something so authentic and warm.
The most beautiful thing is NOW and the habit of living in it. Alas, we learn too late that running gets us nowhere. But it’s good you have built such good practices for yourself and are living a peaceful new you.
That going for a walk, amidst nature and enjoying it to the fullest is something that I indulge in. Truly mindfulness matters to keep us calm in every situation.
I love how you’ve explained mindfulness. I wish more people read this beautiful post to understand and follow this practice which is truly life changing.
Being mindful for me is with my daily journaling and spending some time with my plants. It gives me immense pleasure and happiness in doing that… It helps me breathe better.
I could relate so much to living on autopilot. Your words have reminded me to slow down and just be. Now, I want to take more mindful walks and savour the little moments. Thank you for sharing this, Harjeet.
I feel these rituals are really need to calm down our racing minds in this fast-paced lives. I am also going to try bringing them into my life.
This is so needed for me. I too am trying to be more present but have a long way to it. Thanks for this
Thank you, I really enjoyed this post. I’m trying my best to be mindful but it gets difficult with the constant chaos in my house which then translates into my head.
Everyone is in such a rush trying to fit in as much as possible in one day. We should stop and enjoy the small things too. I loved your honesty of not getting it right each time. The main thing is that we are able to recover and move on.
Loved your lines towards the end, “Mindfulness isn’t about escaping life. It’s about arriving fully into it—messy, beautiful, unpredictable as it may be.”
A beautifully reflective piece that gently reminds us to pause and be present. Your rituals feel like poetry in motion—simple, grounding, and full of grace. Truly inspiring in this chaotic world.
Mindfulness really changed the game for me. I now feel more peaceful and relaxed
These days I am practicing mindfulness by walking, doing little body movements, eating good food, and having good company. I guess it is important to listen to your body and act accordingly. Loved this post.
Mindfulness is an underrated activity we really under appreciate. This beautiful gentle reminder was much needed. Thank you for this blog!
I am trying to be extra mindful about every part and activity of my life these days. I want to lead an intentional life.
Breath-by-breath presence feels transformative—like discovering hidden stillness beneath everyday chaos. I’ve found myself pausing more often now, noticing small shifts in mood and focus. Thank you for guiding us back to ourselves.