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Empowered Evolution: From Surviving to Thriving

by Harjeet Kaur
April 1, 2025
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Empowered Evolution: From Surviving to Thriving

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Empowered Evolution: From Surviving to Thriving

For years, I was merely getting by, but now, I am stepping into my power. This journey is about breaking free from limitations, embracing my worth, and becoming the best version of myself. I have faced obstacles, battled self-doubt, and risen stronger each time. Now, I choose growth over fear, self-love over criticism, and courage over comfort. This series is my story of transformation—Empowered Evolution: From Surviving to Thriving. This is my theme reveal for Blogging from A to Z Challenge & #BLOGCHATTERA2Z YEAR 2025!

I will be sharing 26 A-to-Z reflections on the lessons I’ve learned along the way. The first title would be

  • A – Awakening: Igniting the Spark Within

My Journey of Growth, Grace, and Grit

Empowered Evolution

Breaking Free from the Mould

The world is constantly setting expectations for me. I was required to look a certain way, be a certain way, or act a certain way to be accepted. That was a falsehood. I do not need to be anyone’s definition of what I should be—I am already complete. At age 61, I am finally living on my terms. Here is My Journey of Growth, Grace, and Grit.

Treating Myself with Kindness

It is treating myself with kindness and compassion, just as I would do for a dear friend. I was my own worst critic for too long—tearing myself down with merciless criticism, comparing myself to others, and focusing on what I lacked instead of what I possessed. That is done. I no longer tear myself down. I choose self-faith instead of self-doubt. A woman with high standards doesn’t engage in thoughts that belittle her soul, and I no longer do that.

Prioritising Myself Without Guilt

It is not selfish to put myself first—nor is it a choice. My happiness, my wants, and my value are just as important as anyone else’s. I’ve learned to set boundaries and not stand for treatment that doesn’t value me. If a situation is depleting my energy or a relationship is causing me to feel smaller instead of respected, I let it go. Not because I am heartless, but because I love myself too much to do anything other.

Accepting Growth and Imperfection

It is also about loving myself to grow. No human is perfect, and self-love is not about pretending that my flaws do not exist—it’s about honouring my virtues and accepting my imperfections. I am constantly growing, learning, and getting better to be the best that I can be—not for others, but for myself. Confidence is not about never failing; it is about rising each time I do. I have fallen many times, as you all know, but I rise again.

Self-Care: A Necessity and Not a Luxury

Self-care is how I care for my body, mind, and soul. It is not about looking good—looking good is just a bonus. It is about feeling good. About hearing what I need, resting when I am tired, pushing myself when I know that I can do better, and nourishing myself with positivity. I no longer feel self-conscious about doing things for myself because when I am best for myself, I am best for the world.

The Power of Self-Love

The greatest thing about loving myself is that it emanates energy. When I love myself, it shows—my stride, my words, and my smile. The world is a reflection of what energy I put out. If I am aware that I am worthy, others will know it. If I respect myself, others will respect me. By loving myself wholeheartedly, I ensure that I do not accept anything less than what I truly deserve.

Refusal to Settle

We all hit a crossroads in life. One is comfortable and easy but not fulfilling. One is difficult and uncertain but leads to more. I will not do what is easy simply because it is easy. In a career and friendships, I will never settle for anything less than what I am truly worth.

Finding My Worth

Settling doesn’t happen overnight—it is done in incremental steps. When I stay in a job that saps my energy for fear. When I let others disrespect my time and kindness for fear of confrontation. With each time that I settle, I lose a part of myself.

I am aware that loneliness is better than having a person who makes me feel alone. I will never beg for attention, commitment, or love. The right individual will see me, appreciate me, and be by my side as my partner. I attract love and do not chase it.

Fear: A Mind’s Illusion

People often ask me, “How do you live alone? Aren’t you afraid?” I smile and say, “Fear is a falsehood—False Evidence Appearing Real.” I do not let fear dictate my future. If a door is not opened to me, I open my own. If I am not given a seat at the table, I make my own. A friend once said I don’t have the lines for travelling abroad. I smiled and replied, “Then I’ll carve them myself.” I do not wait for permission to succeed—I make it.

Choosing Friendships That Inspire and Uplift

The people that surround me affect my life. The people around me shape my life. I spent 57 years in my hometown but left with only a suitcase in hand—never once looking back. Moving at this age wasn’t easy, but I had reached my limit. Now, I know I made the right choice. I no longer keep friends who drain my energy, are negative, or do not help my goals. Seeking relationships that inspire, challenge, and motivate me. I would prefer to be around people who are happy about my successes and do not resent them.

The Strength of Self-Esteem

The key to never settling is self-respect. I do not let anyone- friend or society—define my worth. I trust my intuition and am firm in my convictions. If it is not what I stand for, I leave. I know that short-term discomfort is better than long-term regret.

Trusting the Timing of My Life

I know that great things take time and that I am ready to wait for what I truly deserve. In career and personal growth alike, I know that the right people and situations will come to me at the right time. I do not chase—I attract by being my best self.

Setting the Standard

When I stand strong and do not settle for less, I set a standard—not for myself, but for those around me. The world respects a woman who respects herself. Life gives to me what I am willing to receive. If I get less than that, that is what I will receive. If I demand more—if I know my worth and do not settle for less—then I will attract to myself the best there is.

I deserve to live a thrilling, fulfilling, and joyful life. And what is preventing that is my decision to never settle for anything less. I am Harjeet Kaur. This is my life, and I am living it my way.

This is my journey—one of growth, grace, and grit. I hope it inspires you to step into your own Empowered Evolution: From Surviving to Thriving and embrace the life you truly deserve.

Empowered Evolution

I’m participating in #BlogchatterA2Z

You can read the stark realities of my life and how I have evolved –

  1. The Woman That I Am | Rainbow Colours of My Life
  2. My Journey of Resilience & Empowerment
  3. Postpartum Depression | Imprint on My Life
  4. She- is courage
  5. 2021- My year in review
  6. 2020 Self Love

 

Tags: awakemingbreaking freeempowered evolutionempowered womanempowering womenmy journey of grace and gritself-careself-esteemself-lovesetting standards
Harjeet Kaur

Harjeet Kaur

I’m Harjeet Kaur, the voice behind Wordsmithkaur, a lifestyle blog that’s ranked among India’s Top 20. My writing journey started unexpectedly with articles for The Hindu, and I even had a weekend column that had loyal readership. Over the years, I’ve juggled many hats—content creator, freelance writer, and blogger—all while nurturing my love for words. On my blog, you’ll find a little bit of everything: recipes straight from my kitchen, travel diaries, gardening tips, and stories about beauty, mental health, and sustainability. Cooking is my therapy, and I take pride in turning simple, traditional recipes into gourmet dishes—with love as my secret ingredient. I write to connect, to share, and to inspire. Whether it’s content for social media, blogs, or brochures, I thrive on crafting stories that resonate. If it’s writing you need, I’m your go-to wordsmith. Take a peek into my world—I promise there’s always something interesting waiting for you.

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Comments 4

  1. Suchita Agarwal says:
    2 months ago

    Kudos to your power Harjeet. It’s not easy to work on yourself, look at all your scars and see your worth. Look forward to your series. All the best!

    Reply
    • Harjeet Kaur says:
      2 months ago

      Thanks, Suchita. It’s been two decades of scars and healing.

      Reply
  2. Swarnali Nath says:
    2 months ago

    Harjeet ji, I want to tell you that this series is going to to be a great resource for people looking for motivation, resilience and courage. I am pretty sure reading this series will uplift the spirit higher. Good luck for the challenge. Here’s my theme reveal if you want to check: https://theblissfulstoryteller.com/2025/03/28/theme-reveal-for-blogchatter-a-to-z-2025-challenge/

    Reply
  3. Pandian Ramaiah says:
    2 months ago

    So thrilled to read this. My spirits are really lifted. Looking forward to this in April.

    Reply

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